Why should we neglect to promote our (personal) law?

The women are the guardian for us. They have to pay maintenance for us as well as have right to choose us. And they must have to prepare the accommodation where they are living. We cannot look after our parents who looked after and educated us. Never would like to be accompanied with those companions, in heavens, of the Prophet (pbuh) who was gingerly looked after and maintained their parents. These are the statements of our youngsters, and guidance of our parents, in any way. Even this contrary guidance are being allowed or premised not only by our educated people, intellects, head of the society and ulama as well.

Nowadays in Northern and Eastern land of our country, the reason for several sins that is the unnatural and anti Islamic matrimonial cultures that is being followed by our people who are carrying Islamic name.

If the female one is going to be started her matrimonial life she must have made ready mainly shelter, furniture, vehicles, sum of gold and much sufficient full money. Otherwise she is better to continue her virgin with help aged father and mother. Actually, in these provinces, the price for the bridegrooms has been changing multiply according to the quantity and quality of the bridegrooms and their family. Thus the competition arises among riches and middle class family in order to seek and trace proper bridegroom for their status like doctors, Engineers, Lawyers who are the soul property of the high class or rich full family, whilst the middle class, they are expecting bridegroom at lease like government servants for their family as a new member.

Sometime, middle class one too can try to be fishing doctor or engineer or lawyer out of his status. Finally the father of the bride, the middle class, ought to became a have not and liable to so much depth because the price of the doctors, engineers, lawyers are more cost unlike the normal government servants. By this competition, sometime the high class family will earlier to book the bridegroom before he is sold by parents to another. This is because; they would like to have an immediate body technician (doctors) as he shall save whenever we shall have parallel body conditions and believing that it protects our family status.

For these purposes:

Father of the bride conducts unreasonable and unlawful interests, robbery, bribe, unfair trade and selling drugs for their expected much amount of income by which only, he believes, to satisfy his bridegroom. If he feels that could not obtain that much so, ought to be spend his long life (about 10-15 years) in Middle East.

Other hand, the brotherhood is born with two or three or four sisters have been dealing with male acts and further their comportments because to unethical acts like prostitution, masturbation and homosexuality. (So we should consider the real stands of the eastern people on which basis they allowed this unnatural acts and what are the reasons behind these) unfortunately he would have got marry too much later as he had to be previously arranged accommodation like shelter, vehicle, sums of gold and money, piece of paddy land for each and every sisters who were born by same womb of the mother with him. Therefore, innocent brotherhoods who have more than one sister consider that they are the unfortunate human beings in this temper. But Allah says in the Qur’an they are the fortunate parents and brothers in the earth.

However, the facts of the female, who’s father passed away and who was born without brotherhood, is in my means dump disease that could not be torched. And the mothers’, who is not begotten male child and whose husband took away or passed away, situation is very shameful story. she carrying of great weight and oppressive experience in preparing those pre elements what the torment are asking in the name of Islam (Allah) for unnatural matrimonial performance that is usually happenings before educated, intellects family members of victimized bride and bad master bridegroom, head of the society, trustee members of the mosque and members of the All Ceylon Jam’iyathul ulama. Several times, our motherhood shall alternatively choose to recruit her in order to unload these oppressive weights.

Certainly, the over comes of so disgraceful acts are very retrogressive of our Muslim society. Directly or indirectly, we are well aware of the conditions about their children and the family without better safe, means and maintenance by mother which are bold letter headlines of our news papers, usually, we will have been. The motherhood are earning much money to the breaks of the shelter or house not for the cells of the child’s, to the iron of the foundation not for the concrete body of the child, to painting the house not for the goodness of the child. Thus they become a male nutriciance.

The position of our youth who are not liable to the family, they have no matrimonial life until the womanhood one to make necessary arrangement previously for him. No problem he will wait for the day until it comes. Because of these, they depending on the feet’s of female to begin matrimonial life, meanwhile having deal with smoking, drinking, using drugs, lust with cinemas and handling idly way for whatever they need. Furthermore, some buggers saving their soul by means of the wife who sacrifices their life in Middle East.

Those consequences, by means of our anti Islamic matrimonial culture, seeded by our passed heads of the society and the ulama of our Mosques in the name of Islam for our passed ancestors who were no mature understanding about Islam and the way of Prophet (pbuh), which are nowadays being followed by our Muslim people in the North and Eastern province.

In spit, here, we should consider the controversy was surrounding the death sentence of our sister Fathima Rizana Nafeek was part of an anti Islamic matrimonial system practiced in properly the east. Many Muslim leaders and organization were silent about the plight of Rizan Nafeek who was recently sentenced to death following the death of an infant in Saudi Arabia.

The property situation forced her parents to send her at young age to make ends meet, the most girl opt to work at a young age. The reason for this that it was an untold need that a girl like her, who was shackled by the chains of poverty, earns money to have a handsome Dowry (Chie’thanam) to please her future husband. It was Dr.lalith Kotelawela and Basil Fernando who paid the lawyers’ fees to help Rizana and no Muslim volunteered to help her.

So, the Muslim religious affairs and cultural affairs department must have to re-establish the proper Islamic system of marriage and property law in the North and East. More often than not, hypocrites use Islam as a veil of deception to indulge in illegal activities. It is a crime to send a young woman to earn a living abroad and this sin will befall the entire community that sanctions her to do this.

Allah, the Most sufficient.

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